The truth is, it never arises from outside.
But from inside.
A friend of mine called, she wanted to meet me in the coffee shop. Her only problem, people around her were unable to understand her. Our discussion followed like this.., I told her most of the times we never notice our problem when interacting with the world. The unnoticing of our’ failure to notice’ in our bad behaviour was the cause of the hate by others. We always view the world from our perception but we fail to notice our bad behaviour from others’ angle. The reality is when you fail to see your problem, the problem will continue and reach the stage of unrepairable ness.
If you analyse, you come to know what your problem is and can take enough measure to come out of it. The symptoms like depression are the signal about your subconscious problem. But, People always avoid or escape depression by engaging with their friends or clubs, being in office by extending their working time or taking anti-depression pills. Hence, when you escape from depression, you are not interested in solving them.
The understanding of the signal that you are influenced by the subconscious mind is always in reverse..
1. You hate someone for their display of character. If you closely watch, the characters you hate outside are the one you actually practice and disliked by another person.
2. When people constantly insult you for your bad habit. You know but you don’t know how to change.
3. People who are conscious about health and speak often about exercise, diet, and medication are arises out of fear of death.
The above problem is the expression of subconsciousness influencing you in your conscious behaviour. If you are facing a problem and when it leads to hate, then give time to think. Where are you in the problem and how do you participate in that hate. It can help you to move out of such hate..