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Wife & Daughter

Wife, "You don't even know me in this 25years of marriage" Woman cannot be understood, the husband knows better, the moment he tries to understand her, she slips away from him. Woman is not the same woman the day before, year before, a minute before. She changes, she...

Right

The awareness of 'I'm Right' is Wrong We know our perception rules our world. What we think 'right' will always be wrong to others. Our perception has a pattern of our own priorities, faith and belief. We always miss other perceptions, we still believe our perception...

Absurd?

There is no straight line on earth. If you draw a straight line on earth it always has a slight bend due to the curve of the earth. The house cannot be constructed by drawing on a straight line, a slight tilt always present and unavoidable. Every architecture has a...

Lacan – The Mirror Stage

Jaques Lacan was a French Psychoanalyst and his famous theory called "the mirror stage" was enlightening. Lacan's “the mirror stage” was to understand how the child processes his image in the mirror. The process moves the imaginary to symbolic and finally moves into...

Knowing4

What is trust? It starts happening between the two. The trust is not a bondage but knowing each other without confirming the third. A third is always a disturbance. If the wife suspects her husband is having an affair. If she brings the third woman into the argument....

Endless

You can't solve your life problem by switching over. Better carry the cross.. See, your life is a closed universe. Think it is just your bedroom.  Now you got married and you find your wife is so horrible and you cannot prolong with her. Then you decided to divorce...

Understanding

Understanding is not a gradual thing not like becoming a graduate. You become a graduate by gradually depending on the duration of the course. But the tenure will get over and  whether you understood the concept of such a course is questionable. Why? That's why you...

Knowing57

There are certain things going around us in the name of virus,  Something not coming to understand, about the whole episode of treatment of humans.  There is a complete exploitation of common people in the name of medical treatment. The principle of society...

Lack

There is a lack in everything. We too carry the lack which disturbs us in our life. You always find a husband or wife from a happy family falls into an affair, You may ask why? May be searching in another in what is missing at present in theirs... When a man got into...

Knowing36

Without has 'with' inside.  To pronounce without means you should have them in the first place now it is absent.  The 'without' born out of 'with' and  without 'with' there is no 'without'. The 'without will always mean absence because there should be something in the...

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Office Meeting

Office Meeting

Office Meeting has its own way of understanding. We all attended a meeting, at least once in our office,  Assume a new policy is introduced, everyone in the meeting would have experienced it, as if we all understood the idea behind it.  But actually we are not, that's...

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There are always two opposite aspects in everything.   Have you watched the tree?  It is so hard but still it allows us to make furniture out of it.  You can sit  and put on your entire weight confidently and you are never going to get crushed.  How come the same tree...

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Temporary

Temporary

Your word temporary does not refer to the present situation. Actually it belongs to the future    Anything you say temporarily will become temporary only when you change it. The change will have to come in future to prove the past one to be called temporary otherwise...

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Wisdom

Wisdom

You may be here You may not be here You cannot be in (both places) here and there.   Sometimes you may be proved wrong e.g. when two protons emitted from the same sources, travelling in different directions but still can interact and alter the happening irrespective...

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Meiyazhagan

Meiyazhagan

The visible tree belongs to the present environment, but the root belongs to the birth. Here the story swings around this concept. We never forget day to day events but suppress them under our conscious mind. Just a clue or smell is enough to bring to our attention.  ...

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BLACK

BLACK

Once upon a time there was no time!!   There was a true incident. A woman experienced his brother arriving from an army leave. Later she received a phone call that her brother died on the battlefield. When she rushed to his brother's room, there was no sign of his...

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