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Anna Karenina

"A woman needs a lover, not a husband"  what women don't realize is that a 'lover' in her man, cannot remain as a 'lover' in the role of a husband because  Lover and Husband are two different archetypes of men that they never meet. What will happen when her husband is...

Argument

When you argue you lose yourself in argument. The argument comes when both of them don't know the event in depth but try to prove a point whatever they believed was true. The in depth truth you carry never pulls for a debate because the truth needs experience but...

Lacan – The Mirror Stage

Jaques Lacan was a French Psychoanalyst and his famous theory called "the mirror stage" was enlightening. Lacan's “the mirror stage” was to understand how the child processes his image in the mirror. The process moves the imaginary to symbolic and finally moves into...

Secret

Secret was never been a secret  You never know who is your best friend unless you tell him your secret. Why tell your friend a secret, you know it will get shared in the name of a secret to all your friends. We always never tell our secrets but we never mind sharing...

Freedom

“You don’t want freedom, if you have freedom, you won’t be there to appreciate it.” We all want freedom but we don't know, from where? we want to get freed?. The moment you are freed, The concept of you will disappear. You won't be there to enjoy yours freedom. Why?...

Family

You cannot choose the family to enter into this earth. God knows if you're given an option of choosing parents means you never decide coz choosing is confusion that's what happens when we are allowed to choose our own life partners through most of them misfired or...

Disappear

I was sitting in a Railway Station, a train passing through the station without stopping. The train passes through without the necessity of the present station. Sometimes we pass through our life without giving importance to certain events in order to disappear from...

Jealous

Jealous is a beautiful energy born out of pure love of possession. Once you know, the one you want to possess is separate from you and cannot merge with you. then it gives birth to jealousy. Fear of losing or Fear of denial from the object you possess can also make...

God is not available

God sees things that happen inside of human civilization as normal.Hence there is no immediate punishment for wrong doing. The concept of money, wealth, character, moral..etc are applicable to humans who live inside the concept of society and not to the understanding...

Process of First Impression in Love

Your first impression has two seats in your thoughts. When you meet a stranger, your first thought is to screen you in him. If you like a stranger immediately you avoid him because you may seek him through love but you don’t want to.. You go home with a thought about...

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Office Meeting

Office Meeting

Office Meeting has its own way of understanding. We all attended a meeting, at least once in our office,  Assume a new policy is introduced, everyone in the meeting would have experienced it, as if we all understood the idea behind it.  But actually we are not, that's...

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There are always two opposite aspects in everything.   Have you watched the tree?  It is so hard but still it allows us to make furniture out of it.  You can sit  and put on your entire weight confidently and you are never going to get crushed.  How come the same tree...

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Temporary

Temporary

Your word temporary does not refer to the present situation. Actually it belongs to the future    Anything you say temporarily will become temporary only when you change it. The change will have to come in future to prove the past one to be called temporary otherwise...

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Wisdom

Wisdom

You may be here You may not be here You cannot be in (both places) here and there.   Sometimes you may be proved wrong e.g. when two protons emitted from the same sources, travelling in different directions but still can interact and alter the happening irrespective...

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Meiyazhagan

Meiyazhagan

The visible tree belongs to the present environment, but the root belongs to the birth. Here the story swings around this concept. We never forget day to day events but suppress them under our conscious mind. Just a clue or smell is enough to bring to our attention.  ...

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BLACK

BLACK

Once upon a time there was no time!!   There was a true incident. A woman experienced his brother arriving from an army leave. Later she received a phone call that her brother died on the battlefield. When she rushed to his brother's room, there was no sign of his...

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