We love stories, we are story telling animals.
The real truth is….
Your problems are nothing but a story to others.
Your problems are nothing but a story to others.
We are always proud that we have so many people to listen to our problems actually Yess!
But
your problems are a story to others and they just listen to yours, like reading a fiction or watching a live drama. They actually enjoy your circumstances and your life twists and turns. Your secrets are now available for their future gossip. They love you more coz they need your stories to continue with problems hence they can enjoy vicariously and also be happy for the punishment you’re undergoing..
Have you ever watched your confession of your problem to others, you finally say that please don’t share with anybody because you know your truth is more vulgar and lousy to be known to society. This, this will stimulate the listener to call everyone to tell-your problem and ask them to act as if they don’t know, when they come across you . They do behave coz they too need stories.
This is our damn life.
Why I am telling that your problems are stories to others because
the listener replies/advises more of a story climax.
For example if you say you’re going to divorce your husband then their reply will be to adjust him coz Men are like that. If you watch, their replies are more like the climax of a story or movie.
They never advise you practically coz they are in an entertainment mode and more of your stories means more episodes.
Hence do not share your personal problem to others coz you become a story to a listener and nothing else.
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