I often heard the word “I miss you”
When you are in love you never miss him because he is in you. If you say, he still stays outside of you then the love is in a premature stage.
What is love?
Actually when you’re in love, you are actually in love with your inner male and vice versa for men. In love the lover always initially stays peripheral and the more you love, he slowly moves in you. He will enter into your inner male. If the process is complete, you never miss him outside.
Suppose your love is infatuation. You always used the condition word that “you missed him” because he was still staying in peripheral and yet to enter in you. The missing is nothing but you are missing him in your inner male.
Hence, If you say ‘I miss you” then it is nothing but you’re unable to connect you directly to the inner male. So you need him, you require a peripheral of his presence to connect your inner male.
The spouse generally exchanges a conversation like, “I love you, Darling!”
The moment you say that, your spouse exists outside of you, You never become one with him, you always live as a separate individual and you need these conditioned words to continue the relationship. The Truth is “True relationships don’t require demonstration”.
In true love, ‘He knows you and you know him’ you just carry on and your intimation is always expressed unconsciously. an incident like, if your husband comes to you as soon as he gets up from the bed to the kitchen for coffee and slightly brushes you. I think it’s enough to express love and you don’t require the conditioned word like ‘I Love You’….Right
I heard these kinds of sentences “I cannot live without you”
Then, there is no you in you. You never understood that you are an individual and you project your entire life on others. The very usage of these sentences says, “you require attention” because such usage makes you weak and unable to connect your inner self. When the ‘Self’ is weak, we use those words in our communication.
The projection on others makes you mad because every action of you seeks approval from others. Generally, our actions are initiated and directed by ‘self’ and if there is no you in you. you are nothing but somebody and that somebody will never love you but abuse you as his or her disturbance. No person will be ready to marry such a person because she or he will be considered a burden rather than as a gift.