You’re in mess
Mess makes you more alive and you have so many things to do and you very well know you’re not careless but your impulse nature tends to take the latest one and leave others to accumulate. The beauty of all the pending comes on a single due date. You’re in a God mode to carry out divinely to come out of mess and still mess never leaves you. Your girlfriend ditch you but your character of mess will never. It follows you till death.
The mess arrives in the family when the unknown space was disturbed by one of the spouses. What is space in family life?when your spouse unknowingly never interferes with your important work. Example you’re in the office and your spouse never calls you and only sends you SMS to communicate with you and tells you to call, whenever you’re free. If it is another way then someone invades other space by just calling without respecting others’ situation. A husband moving to another woman may be the reason for the absence of space between his wife and him. The wife unconsciously disturbs him to push him out of her boundary and instigate him to have an affair.
The mess arrives in our career. We all know our thoughts drive us and our thoughts are our identity. Sometimes we tend to relax thinking about our present position with what we wanted to be. The distance is the mess between what we want and what we have now. The mess is beautiful because it teaches you, how far away from your desire is and it is never reachable because our thoughts will grow along with our growth and hence we never get fulfilled and this mess always stays with us as a scar. The scar is your identity, hence enjoy it.
Why mess pushes into affairs and I feel every man is a book and has a lot of character in him, that’s why he was able to write and become a writer. All his experiences are transferred into character and his negatives are the villains in his book. He would have borrowed characters from other worlds except hero and villain. Men are good writers, some can write on paper and others on women and some are good at both. what I understood from casual SEX is just an extension of our love and when you’re not able to differentiate between Lust and Love and there you get into mess. This too is needed in life to enjoy.
There is a statement, “Man makes error and carries on with it is divine..”