The memory was a gift; Let us understand the beauty of memory recorded in each of us. 

When you are talking to your girlfriend, actually you are talking to your memory of her. That’s why she can recall your memory in her as and when demanded. The real beauty of our memory consists of modules in our brain. An awareness of, Why your girlfriend called on you about the bad behavior of you in the party, and She called you, that too after two or three days to pinpoint.

It’s strange, though that’s how the brain protects our relationship. When she saw your bad behavior through her Visual module in her brain but it was not shared to the decision module immediately. But it will pop up when she recalls your memory of the party in leisure, now the decision module in her brain was shared by visual module memory. Now she knows how you escaped so long not to get noticed. So, she calls you now to pull up the fight.

We have modules in our brain, all modules share their data for the survival of our life and also protect us from relationships. Once it happened to me. When I told my friend that a girl I met at the mall was beautiful. He asked the reason for attraction. But I failed to express myself in words. But later I learned that my visual module never shared the incident with the decision memory module. That’s why my linguistics module does know how to express to my friend.

Love and relationships are played in our brain. Sometimes you like the lover so much when all the information is shared in your brain and vice versa. In the office, your file cupboard and table drawer are extensions of your memory and it includes your contact details, appointment, message in the inbox of mobile are also an extension of your memories.

We carry memories some inside and some outside. It has to sync to make perfect decisions. A good decision we call, when our entire module shares the entire memory of our experience and intuition. Then it’s a win-win situation.