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Someone rejects us in love
But we stay on, actually he moves away. Actually you reject him, that’s why he moves away. Why we hate rejection is because we feel our creator has rejected us. God rejects evil people. We all know eating an apple Adam and Eve kicked out of Eden. The rejection by God was a severe pain on the heart of Adam and Eve. We are from the line of Adam and Eve, hence we suffer from the same feeling.

Rejection by another person, we think someone has kicked out of their Eden. Actually you are the person who had rejected him. You made him move away. what it means he moved away from your Eden not you. There is no way to feel bad about rejection. Sometimes when we hate someone unconsciously, we show it our character that made them move away from us. But consciously we are not aware about our move and feel as if someone has rejected us but actually it is the reverse.

If you check an employee who has a complaint about his superior continuously.
Actually, he unconsciously carries his manager in all walks of life. He deliberately carries it home and carries it to the theatre and to parties. but he blames unhappiness because of him. We carry others, actually we complain they are disturbing in our life. We never reject them in the first place. We never know how to reject coz we are programmed to love everyone. If you want to reject someone first you should renounce him from your heart and there the rejection starts. If you listen to your superior and ignore his comment on you either good or bad then it is a win-win situation.

If someone rejects you. Please watch carefully, what you are doing unconsciously for him to reject you and move away from you. You stand as Eden.

There is no real in rejection; it is just an act to move away or to make others move away for choosing a better alternative.