When you say this. You become the subject and she becomes the object and the love will become trading.
Is it good to say ‘I love you’. Actually not, it is a conditioned word. You always want to follow the universal mode of language to convey the common emotion. Where there is ‘I’ and ‘You’. When you are really merged in one another’s thoughts. Why do you have to tell someone ‘I love you’ before?
Because it’s a society way of confirming the relationship.

You want to invest your love after she confirms your love. Then you can marry her and invest money on her because you fear you can’t hold money on your own due to your impulsive mind towards spending. You make her dead by marrying and start investing. You need an answer otherwise you won’t love coz we feel our love is precious and cannot invest in one way. The term love we use is to confirm whether I can make you dead and stand with me till death.

How can you bring subject and object in the first place in true love?
Hmm, you are a stranger to yourself that’s why you bring ‘I’ in love. Loving a woman is becoming an ego for man. It feeds the ego that you own a woman for your life. The sense of ownership gives division in you as subject and object. People are conditioned to hear the conditioned sentence in order to express themselves..

In love, there is no “the concept of ‘I’ ” coz when you see her, you forget yourself and you live in her and she lives in, hence there is no she i.e. Object in love. Both get merged in love. What is love may be a bowl where mixing takes place, where two ingredients merge together and are far inseparable. Hence there is no separate love in love. If one person says he loves more than another then there is no love in love. How can you measure love and it is not a trade to check the consideration of fair exchange. If some one loves more than other then that is called love. The less and more belonging to mind and mind has no business in love.

Finally 
If you listen closely, 
the love will say to “I” and “You”
Both of you get out from ” I Love You”