Knowing17

Why do we attend discourses, It’s like going to the gym to keep fit against disease. The teaching you hear is nothing but a medicine for the non-existence disease.

The preventive is better than cure. You need a master to learn the technique of prevention from the so-called problem. The society is not flawless, there are so many hidden problems that may or may not arise in the course of our life. But knowing how to escape you need a master to learn such art of prevention. 

To be fit in living inside the society. You should acquire good education, swimming, driving, simple household maintenance work, automobile, household electrical repairs, nature of applying licence, Passport, government formalities. If you do learn these it helps when there is a need. 

Suppose, If you have not learned swimming.  During the crisis of flood, you are in deep trouble. Hence learning the basis is a necessary qualification to live inside the society.
To know the truth behind the structure of life and how to prevent yourself from them. You need a master and his teaching will be a source of knowledge and can be applied if the problem arises. 

Letting go
holding on
both are same state

There is a gate without an entrance, you enter by going out or going out to enter 
both are the same state, nothing different. 
I decided to let go of myself to enter something to hold on the letting go..
I decided to hold-on something to enter to let go of the holding…
In simple,
I decided not to drink coffee by keeping in mind the habit of not to drink coffee ever
I decided to drink coffee by keeping in mind I should not leave the habit of drinking coffee ever
In both states, the results are the same.
The coffee is always present in the mind of the doer.

When you are not decided, 
letting go and 
holding on
disappear
There is no entering in you and nothing leaves from you. 

without anything coming inside, nothing can go outside.
when you stop deciding, the mind disappears, there is no inside and outside and you become the one and one become the whole and whole becomes you.. Bliss