Grandfather died
Father died
And Son dies…
If death happens in the above order, there lies happiness in the family.
If just one order changes. Son dies early leaving Grandfather and Father Or
Father dies leaving Grandfather and Son, then the family will be surrounded by unhappiness. This is the simple logic of happiness.
Why, love brings unhappiness? Want of love from a specific person. In teenage there are few people who love us. But we want love from a specific person. And he loves someone and expects love from that person only. The more specific the more trouble. The symbol of love “an arrow piercing the heart” what happens when someone pierce an arrow in your heart. Unbearable pain….Right.
So love brings unhappiness even after marriage because of the nature of love like that.. Avoiding may bring happiness but..
Happiness differs, to tease I took my Monk friend to a party. He enjoyed it though, he never danced. And he later revealed, dancing outside is just the peripheral way of enjoying and he was dancing inside him throughout.. So, happiness can be felt both ways inside and outside. If we matured enough to enjoy inside, then happiness is permanent..
Pursuit of goal brings happiness, Completion never. Once completed you find a big hollow in front of you. Suddenly life looks meaningless and until you add another lofty goal to push your life. Why? Attaining a goal never gives happiness but definitely the process will.. The process adds happiness because you move from awkward position to skillful.
So, Order of dying, Being an introvert, Avoiding love, Adding goals……… hiding happiness.