I was in a bookstore after a long time coz of Covid 19. Just browsing but there were not many new arrivals and a voice from the back, “will you move a little.” A woman around 35 years and just paved the way for her. It went for an hour and selected some books and came to the billing. She was standing before me, she was rude before hence I just moved out of her and waited for her billing to get finished. I walked through the stairs thinking about a little disappointment about the shopping. I saw that she was standing in front of her car may be some starting trouble. I just moved to my car which was parked next to hers. But I stopped…
We spoke till the mechanics arrived…
When I was introducing myself and talking more about my parents gene, how it influenced me in the social world. She explained to me where I was wrong. Her explanation “Gene contains DNA, and does not influence behavior or emotion or intelligence of my parents. It just produces protein that contains specific DNA arrangements that constitute a genetic code for a particular type of protein. It never makes you do what parents did but definitely influences the emotion behind such behavior. Hence you are unique and you are no more a 100% influenced product of your parental genes.
She was a scientist and I decided not to interrupt her like putting an embarrassing question about her private life. She opened a topic about love. She said, “Lot of people think women move out of love to marry someone just for the sake of security. But every woman life was different and as well as their decision but the true love you experienced will never get erased. She explained about the mind, “We all have relationships but when it ends abruptly. What we do is, we will be pushing it into subconscious minds because we don’t have a mechanism to erase our memory unless we are affected by certain diseases. It always lies deep inside, a proof… Sometimes you will be happy for no reason; you know, those moments arise out of our unconscious mind. You get the awesome feeling not about him, that’s an argument but those happy moments arise out of nowhere but actually he hid deep inside me and moved up like a bubble, maybe of his breath from the memory of the deep sea. Love cannot forget the lover because he alone can give the meaning…”
She was good about money. Her perception was, “Men always after money. Their primitive brain never changed from hunters and they don’t know the word “enough”. They go on accumulating and never know how to hold the money in savings. The myth is most men think if they earn more money they can attract women. A small percentage was correct because the good earner definitely will take care of his family but not more money. Women want men to spend time not money. Actually this was a problem with men; they don’t know how much they want to earn and accumulate. Some men know about earning, saving and to have a limited goals are the one carrying the torch of happiness in the world.”
Yess!
The mechanic has repaired her vehicle. I just waited for her to move first and she did…