Forgiveness is a temporary act to overcome the situation, the one you present experiencing. There is no forgiveness in the corporate world. they terminate you for your mistake. It all happens in our personal world. If you see your servant is stealing groceries from your house and she was with you for more than 10 years then you forgive her now and you will decide to get rid of her as soon as possible. The more number of years the servant in your house the more secret she knows about you. Hence you will feel guilt for her cheating and chalk out a neat plan under the forgiveness and terminate her as early.
When you know your spouse is having an affair you find shocked and cheated. Cheating is the highest form of breach in a relationship. Now you forgive your spouse to take one step backward to take your situation under control. Once the situation comes under control you initiate a divorce. Suppose you are already earning members of the house, then there is no forgiveness immediate separation.
Forgiveness is not an act of humbleness. it’s an act to take the situation under control and later punish them. What happens when you forgive you know there was a breach of trust and something breaking inside of you. Hence you move one step backward and prepare yourself for a situation to bounce back to teach them a lesson. Forgiveness is an inability to act soon.
I have read in the newspaper. The criminal who escaped will be seen as an invisible door in the prison. Once he is caught they interrogate him, how he escaped and based on, fresh norms will be implemented. He was forgiven for exposing prison weakness but he will never be forgiven in the future for his act. No concession for his early release.
Forgiveness is a temporary act and if someone forgives you then you soon will be attacked decently.