“If you lose someone,
You find yourself..
“What happens when you lose someone, suddenly you get projected to your life and you almost look like a stranger to you and to the world. Someone was holding a curtain in front of you in the form of love. You came to notice yourself like “an observer who finally gets observed”.
There is no wrong in you in love. But, your lover was taking care in a way to hide you from reality. Sometimes your husband tells you all his savings and debts, when you lose him, you find a strange thing in you i.e.. You find yourself new and everything will look challenging and the world looks new to you. The True Lover has the power to make the world invisible to you. It was more like you moved out of your home. The sun shines on you, It is hard to take coz it’s like you coming out of darkness.
We love to be in love because we always love to be in someone’s shadow. We want someone to pamper us and it is a by-product of love.The one who loves more will pamper the other person by taking them to shopping, restaurants, gifts..etc. We lose ourselves to someone we love and one fine day, If we lose them then we find ourselves as a new person to this world. As if we are born that day.
The advantage of love will make you invisible. For example, Even the decent people will behave badly in public, while in love why? Both of them don’t know they are in front of the world because both became invisible in each other’s love. The climax scene in the Titanic Movie, Once the hero died the heroine wanted to escape from the situation; till the hero was alive she never knew whether she had a life other than him.
Life teaches us a lot in love and family. Once the spouse dies the world becomes open and your home has only doors and no walls. I know a female who lost her husband; she was a housewife, when I met her recently after a few years. She looks fresh and energetic because she took over his joint family and helped their livelihood. A new person in her and with her children’s, a new she & he in her.