Better carry the cross..
See, your life is a closed universe. Think it is just your bedroom.
Now you got married and you find your wife is so horrible and you cannot prolong with her. Then you decided to divorce her for a better life with another woman.
Wait….
Think! your life is nothing more than your bedroom and If you find another female for an affair or another marriage, The option you have is nothing but like you are entering an adjacent room.
Once you move through your bedroom wall to the next room where your girlfriend or second wife is waiting.
Actually, you move through the wall of your bedroom to the next room life but what happens is, you will re-enter your same bedroom from the opposite wall to present life. If you move through the north facing wall but you will come through the south facing wall to the same bedroom.
Your life is never going to change because only the companion is different and you remain the same. You cannot be happy with another woman coz you enter the same life with your new second wife to your same bedroom called your life.
Unless you change your bedroom nothing will change. If you want to know how to change your bedroom? that is not possible in this life. Your bedroom was created by your long past life and it cannot be changed. Then the argument, there are so many people who are happy in affairs or with their next marriage.
The answer is actually ‘No’.
What is happening after a second marriage you tend to experience the same life as compared to your first wife. Hence, there is a maturity to adjust your life and become aware that nothing changes in your present life coz of your past life.
Now, You thoroughly understand this style will apply for your job, children’s, friends, enemies…etc.
A new job is nothing but an old job and
A new friend is nothing but your old friend and
A new second wife is nothing but your first wife.
You never have a better life because you remain the same and your room never changes in this life. Your room is you and you cannot escape and If you, then you come back to the same room from the opposite wall and remain miserable.