Bravery

Brave is a misunderstood concept, 
Is it that we know what stage is called bravery?

I have heard soldiers coming from the war and falling into trauma. They become psychologically ill or commit suicide. The trauma never leaves them. Hence shall we take back the brave award or medals which were given to them in the first place. 

Let us go for a search to find the real character of brave.
I know a bank executive who is generally tough and she got promoted as a manager. She never changed her attitude, continuing to be a little rude and dynamic. She is very helpful but you cannot take her for granted. Once I met her at the bookstore, Our conversation went on… after she finished shopping there was a coffee shop inside the bookstore and she called me for a cup of coffee and it went on. She suddenly told all her disastrous events in her early age and how she overcame those. Now, We drop her here. Now we know the braveness is coming out of trauma right. Going to the battle and killing the enemy is simple. Will you come back to normal life after that’s where your braveness stays. After showing your braveness act and you are going to fall into trauma. then there is no braveness in your act. Take her as an example for braveness. She came out of a disastrous event in early life and see to it that it never happens again.

Hence an act of bravery is not bravery. The event after your bravery counts as your real braveness. Hence your braveness will be proved only how you died after you awarded braveness. Whether you died sane or insane..

A woman who got raped or abused may fall into trauma but she can get out once If she knows the truth of virginityTo keep a woman her virginity, it belongs to society not to her. Suppose a female got raped it is not her mistake. it is the mistake of the society, without society protection she cannot be virgin. I mean society, here I am mentioning people not policemen. Hence when a woman comes out of rape, leading a normal life by pushing those event into back of her. Knowing well it is the responsibility of society, not her. Then she is brave.

A woman in a office normally trapped by her colleagues to have sex. They try to put her into trouble hence they can walk in and solve and ask later, what they wanted from her in return. An intelligent woman will be often mood off and keep the men at bay. I know whenever a woman is a little rude I respect her because by that way she can control other people to stay away from her personal zone. 

Braveness is what you are after the brave event and how you die after the trauma and how you’re living all that count. 
How you groom yourself by not falling into any other trap is also called braveness. 
Letting someone show some act will not lead to his bravery unless how he lives after the events will be counted most.