Apology

Apology follows after a willful act.

Some act draws apology after it was carried out. You hurt someone willfully ie the act was initiated by your subconscious mind. What will happen when you suppress some of the hateful acts done by your wife or girlfriend. You hide it in your subconscious mind and it will always look out for a time to peep out for revenge. This all happens unconsciously in your act and you will be surprised after it has happened. Now you know you did the act willingly and you will be happy to do such a thing then to continue the relationship you beg for an apology. An act of acting.

An apology is a hypocrite act, some women never forget the incident even though the person apologised. Why? they know it was carried out purposely as revenge. It is very true the people who apologize are more like a rebel character. They can’t hide someone’s mistake and wait for a moment and to blast the opponent and later go for an apology.

If someone is apologising, if you forgive them, he will do another act with the weapon of apology. People who apologise often are uncontrollable and may not fit for ordinary relationships. If you love someone deeply and act followed by act he will hurt you and followed by apology but the truth is all his acts are the byproduct of your unapology act on him. It is you who initiated his act of misbehaving. You may deny it but it is you. You do it unconsciously to receive such an act from him and you forgive him. Why?
Because you know very well subconsciously you are the root cause for his act and his apology. His apology makes you feel that he is your slave but actually you are a slave to receive the word ‘apology’ from him in order to continue..

Normal scenarios in apology and forgiveness,  the offender initiates an apology then the victims reply “No Problem”. 
Suppose, if the offender forgets to initiate an apology, then the victim never forgives the offender even though he or she is the one initiating the offender to offend.