One of my friends who got divorced with-in few years of love-marriage, she has a daughter in teen-age. Now the family undergoes a financial problem due to heavy educational expenditure of her daughter wanting to pursue her education abroad.
Now the daughter blames (my friend) i..e. her mother for committing a mistake of getting divorce by choosing the wrong person and giving birth to her…
My friend was crying on the phone and I went to give a small piece of advice to her daughter.
First,
My friend did not select the wrong person coz unless and until you marry a person only, you will come to know whether he is good or bad. Without getting married you cannot judge a person coz we never know the meaning of his life unless he comes to stay with her as a husband. So everything in the world has a small portion of secrets and only gets revealed unless such a person comes and lives with us.
Second,
She has not brought you into this world i.e. you only came through her to this world. It is you as a sperm reaching her egg in the womb and not her egg selected, you as a sperm to get conceived. Hence you as a sperm from your father reached her egg to be born and I think you should have waited by allowing other sperm to enter her egg. It is you who ran and entered her egg bypassing everyone in the competition. Hence you only choose to come to this earth and your mother doesn’t even have 1% contribution to your birth. Hence blaming her for giving birth to you is absurd.
Third,
She never got married again, fearing your future of safety in the hands of her second husband.
Be thankful to her, and hurt my friend no more…
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