The only thing that never works in this world is advice.

Advice is a form of teaching to someone who needs help. The advice we give will never help because your advice comes out of your living with this world. Everybody has a different world hence my advice will not work for you and more over i don’t know your life.

Life is what you live inside but what we perceive in others is outer. You know him as an outsider, you never know who he is inside.  Your advice is like asking someone to wear your face to live in their environment.

The advice we do are from the bucket of common. We know, common advice or teaching never works. think what Our States do. In the case of education, we know only a few percent of people are benefited from the education and for others they studied something and did something else. It is the same for advice, what you give will never reach the person to use it.

The cheapest thing is advice.  The one who gives it, he is just  practicing altruism.. Let him practice and just hear coz we know his advice before he opens his mouth.  Normally, we struggle when our problem reaches the  above conditioned level, Hence the advice is the waste of energy to give and take.

The problem always arises out of a solution and the problem arises to give a severe warning to our way of living. If you sit gracefully you can deal with it. If you are going to cry then great!. The pain to say a lot about you and guide to the solution…Why?

An anecdote
We know about rats, we use wooden traps to catch it. The rats have a habit of grinding their teeth and gnawing the pipes, furniture, buildings and wood molding..etc. But when he is caught in the wooden live trap, why does he forget to gnaw the wooden trap and escape? coz memory and skill never works in emotions and tensions. The person who designed the trap, knowingly designed the traps keeping in mind that rats in tension and emotion forget to gnaw and escape. This is how other advice works for us when we are in tension and full of emotion…

What you need just sit and think, there is a solution nearby..