We always expect someone to fulfill our wishes but they bring disappointment.
We expect children to put their best efforts into our untouched ideas but they fail.
We always wanted our spouse to fill our unlived portion and also expect our children to live our unlived life. They bring disappointment.
Our entire emotional imbalance caused by unlived life.
Once we start our life we will encounter two paths in front of us and one we choose to travel but the other also travel with us as an unlived life. It is submerged in our subconscious and creates all sorts of emotional trouble in outer space.
Author was good at explaining the causes of trouble created by unlived life but that’s a way everyone lives in this world.
He suggests certain exercises to overcome but it is like you missed your Bus long back and now you are boarding to compensate for such and it is not possible and also looks absurd.
The unlived life is a sweet memory of missed life that is needed to be enjoyed in the later world. If you don’t have an unlived life, you don’t have anything to chew on in your old age.
Your spouse or children’s are nothing but to impose your unlived life and may be one way of living vicariously.
Few chapters are awesome and others are just fillers.