We never get healed
Either we push it to the subconscious or understand the pain.

I have experienced the pain and got healed but actually there is no healing taking place inside.. But we just push it to the subconscious and we move on. The pain is always pop-on a few years later when you smell the circumstances and it will cause more confusion because the second time it tries to give the same pain but never stays and flies off. If it reaches you a few times from the subconscious either you will ignore it unconsciously or you try to understand it.

We are ditched by some people and they are not really there when they do such a thing to us. It comes to mind after a long time and we forgive because we think we are healed. But actually no, we understand the situation of the person when he was committing such a kind of sin to us and we strongly believe he/she was not there when such things happen. Some devils would have taken over them. This kind of understanding cancels the pain and you feel relieved. 

Sometimes the more you recollect the pain the more it gets altered in our memories and when we meet someone long after, they tell you the real scenario and they even tell you’re the director for such a thing. 
Yes! Nothing will happen to you from nowhere, there will be no tree just rising in the morning in front of your house entrance, maybe you have seeded and forget to look at its growth. 

Why don’t we understand the pain is nothing but is there to create awareness.  
That little understanding can push you out of a mess.
Some folks say, “you are healed”.