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Persona is inevitable in society. the birth of society gives birth of ‘I’ ie Mask.

You need a mask to manoeuvre in society. You are known by your mask. There is a different mask available, depending on your status you can wear it and move around in the society. 
If you say, I don’t wear any mask in society then you should sit before the mirror and tell all your relations and friends to come before you. You can see your different faces when you encounter different people. Your face changes when you see mother, sister, brother, father, friends, stranger…  You’re not the same person but a crowd.

Just an incident you are talking to a stranger in the park. The conversation goes very casual and suddenly some cops are coming near to you and saluting the stranger. Now you come to know he is an additional commissioner of police. They delivered some messages and left the scene. The mode of conversation changes and you become more respectful and cautious to him.Why? the mask of him changes your behaviour. What it means is we are respected by the mask we wear.

The mask always creates a lot of problems for the woman in the family. She has to wear a mask as wife, mother, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law etc. She has to change quickly as and when he encounters people at home. What happens if she fails to change the mask from wife to daughter in law when she is with mother in law. She may speak carelessly and it will lead to fighting. The domestic problem arises, due to failure in changing masks or may be due to tiredness in doing such change.

The mask is the problem that’s why we go to psychoanalysts to understand who we are, 
But the psychoanalyst never tries to interpret you because your mask creates confusion in him. Hence he decided to analyse your dream, where you are true to yourself. There is no ego in your dream and this makes him easy for him to analyse and heal us.