When I listened to friends’ problems, their loss of wealth, spouse, childrens. How come they were able to tolerate such losses even though they are 200% Good.
Later there is change in situation, some friend who grieved, moved on or some got sunk inside.
I understood!
The best way is to have a ” Detachment in attachment”
We all have been watched by someone to interfere and destroy our lovable. If you are too much attached to the family, disappointment is not far off in losing the family at least one member. If you are too good with your spouse or child, they are taken away. If you are counting your wealth then that too will be taken away by unexpected expenses.
Here someone watches, to punish the excess of humans’ love. If it exceeds the normal, then it will be taken away.
That someone may be God, he didn’t want us to forget in the process of life. He wanted us to carry at least a few percent of imperfection. If you are trying to be 100% percent perfect means you have slowly replaced God in such an act. Then God will interfere and take away our precious.
I’m not an atheist, I’m a strong believer in God. But seeing around the world made me confess.
In South Asia, They built a temple 100% perfect and called the head priest to inspect it before its inauguration. The Head Priest thoroughly went through each and every section of the temple and declared it ‘Just Perfect’. Then, he called the engineers and congratulated them and told them the religious symbol should be put upside down. When everyone raised their eyebrows, he said God doesn’t want 100% percent perfect. Being perfect, you forget the god. If you fail to do so, the temple won’t stand long…
When someone grieved for a loss, a message he loved the object more than 100%. The object made him forget the creator in the process of his life. How to bring him back to normal. Take away the object……Right
Then how to live?
Always suppress a percentage of love within you and behave like the normal and no one notices including God.
Okay! Your argument, God knows you and you cannot hide from God. I do agree but you missed the point when you suppress, the suppressed portion gives birth to a small percentage of imperfection in you… That’s enough for super power to ignore you from punishing you.
The best way is to respect the creator by provide a small space for him in every act of love!