A monk asked a question, “How to get rid of Anger?”
Master, “When you get angry, bring it, I will help you..”
Whenever the monk gets angry, he runs to his master but before he reaches him. The Anger disappeared!!
He understood, an awareness will dilute the anger..

Anger is an emotion to safeguard from predators. Anger confirms that you are in attacking mode. Anger cannot be renounced but controlled. How? If you move out of civilization most of your anger will disappear. The man becomes angrier after he was conditioned because he believes he is going to live in a pattern and also expect others too but it was never such…

People who became a Sage also out of anger,
Why become a sage, because the world looks unfit to live as conditioned. Hence moving out was the only way to escape from anger. When anger disappears, life also disappears from you…What I understood was. Anger has its own cooling system. Time was one of the ingredients to solve the misunderstanding arising out of anger.

Anger never leads to divorce?
But habits in Relationship

Let’s first know about Relationship
Our relationship is like the Share Market, In the share market, every news factor is the Stock Index. It Is the same process in a personal relationship, If you closely watch your relationship pattern with anybody. First it starts like a stranger. Then, you will be attracted to the in-born quality of others. Then, he calls you and you reciprocate/ he spends it on you too. Now, Just analyze your relationship pattern, you find it getting factored in every mutual behavior. When good is happening your relationship graph goes up, and when it’s Bad then graph comes down, So, When you split, You have made a perfect decision on your relationship because all the good and bad things mutually experienced are accurately factored. So there is no way of going back to your relationship.

This, what happens in Divorce Counseling: they never compromise each other and want separation. Even if a counselor brings good things happened in their relationship, they listen but never agree to renew the relationship coz It got already factored and the net was… want of Separation.

In Some cases, the parties agree to renew the relationship, if it is created by only one party due to Bad Behavior not Bad habits. Reason, you can change Bad behavior but cannot change Bad habits Coz Bad habits hide deep down and will surface any time.

Anger protects family and friendship. Anger is a mode you tend to correct the situation, its normally a feel arises out of survival mode.
For example, when you are rejected, you get angry. Why?

When you are rejected, you are pushed into conscious; you cannot live in conscious for long. A rejection is, you are ejected from the social Circle. you pushed out to feel like an animal. Now, either you destroy or fume. The anger is the immediate emotion that jumps out and makes you live, instead of forcing into physical expression you express in words and gesture. a sign of caution to others, you may move into an animal mode.

Finally, anger is a beautiful emotion because the person in anger is so alive and beautiful. In anger he is divine because he is going to talk the truth and you see the real character of him. He exposes himself to the world to judge him and take account of him.

Anger burst within the family always based on love. If you are angry with society it is based on security. If you are angry with yourself means you are in correction mode.