Your first impression has two seats in your thoughts. When you meet a stranger, your first thought is to screen you in him. If you like a stranger immediately you avoid him because you may seek him through love but you don’t want to.. You go home with a thought about how to hate him. The hate in you is seeking him indirectly. There was a constant struggle to ignore him, whenever you meet… This is nothing but you are attracted to him. Your no-response is nothing but a kind of response. Avoiding him in the party or social gatherings is one way of losing you into you. He slowly spread like a plague and you never want to medicate and you rather allow him to spread in your tree in the form of butterflies.
The first seat is hate and the second seat is love. It’s like a kind of Two-valued Orientation. Love and hate grow together. When you fall in love, the hate grows underneath and vice versa. This is clever of the mind to save you. When you are in hate with someone, he occupies you more in mind. The hate is a trick of your mind. You want him to stay with you. The hate makes your man to occupy all of your thoughts and indirectly seek him. His name appears in all others conversations or in your others activities. The cosmos teases you and the outcome is your cry, it comes out of nowhere without knowing the cause. The cause is him and the effect is hate or cry.
Hate is nothing but another form of love. A reverse or upside down, and to hate…you need a person in your mind like where love needs a lover.