Jealous is a beautiful energy born out of pure love of possession. Once you know, the one you want to possess is separate from you and cannot merge with you. then it gives birth to jealousy.
Fear of losing or Fear of denial from the object you possess can also make you mad. This madness is a beautiful energy.
Jealousy first divides you from the one you want to possess and you may go to the extent of killing coz killing the object may kill the existence of outer. Once the outer disappeared, a rational mind may quench your fear and enable your mind to love indispensable coz he/she is no more outside and fear of getting lost has disappeared.
Jealous always reverse in gender
A husband can forgive his wife of loving a stranger than having sexual relationship but
In women is reverse, Wife forgive her man having sex with stranger than loving..
Love is presupposed to possession, that’s why? In love, frustration plays a major role in possessing each other and actually frustration does group dance under the banner of jealousy.
Finally,
There was an anecdote about a Snake and the Ant.
When humans started destroying forests for civilization they started killing all animals. One Snake decided to meet God and revealed what was happening to their species. God gave a wish that IF any human disturb them, they can bite, it means death to them.
When the snake came out of God’s world on the way, he met an Ant and said what happened between God and him. The Ant got jealous and went to God and asked to grant a wish “Biting humans means death”. God fulfilled ant wishes too.
We all know,
If Ant bites a human, it gets killed immediately. In jealousy we lose focus…