3Stages Of Love

There are 3 experiences of love in human life.

You love someone but that someone will not love you. The thing you love, will reject you coz you’re not qualified. We all make a lot of attempts to qualify for our love but we fail. There is no way to qualify for someone we love. You should understand the truth that things you love will never love back because you’re already taken for granted. 
In simple, if someone loves you the choice is already made then it is you have to decide whether to accept but you can still postpone at will hence you put on hold. In other ways, the hold is a choice for you whether to accept others. 
Hence don’t commit anyone coz once you commit then they have the power to hold you or reject you. Why?
Power is Knowledge, If you want power you should have knowledge about violence behind such power. Hence when you show your love and what she gets is power. The power gives enough time for her to accept you or reject you. Till such time you’re in the reject mode on her mind.

Second, You love and she loves you then this dirty society comes into play to separate you. There is a group of psychos who don’t want you to get married. They bring in a lot of hurdles in the name of religions and customs to separate you. Here you and the thing are in the same mode but the society never ever entertains such love. I know there are certain people around you, they see that you never marry someone you love coz once your love is fulfilled and moved to marriage then you may leave them. That’s why parents are worried about love marriage because the son knows the true love of a girl means he is going to leave them and live a beautiful life.
Hence, spoil the happiness of the children hence he lives a miserable life getting married to someone he doesn’t love and staying with the parents till their death. 

Third, You love and she loves and there is no value in everything because you have become too old to take care of you and there is no way of taking care of her. You need a caretaker and she needs one too. This society never involves coz you’re no use to the society and even if both get married there is nothing in the relationship. The old people cannot create a family structure, hence they are allowed freely Why? There is no and nothing in everything in this stage.

In short,
You love and other put you on hold,
You love and she love too but society never allow
You love and she loves but no use coz you’re already old and waste.