There are six secrets of understanding our life.
1. Be a stranger always.
Man is a rational animal but doesn’t mean you always have to be in a relationship. Be a stranger to everyone including your spouse. Stranger means a pinch of unknown in you. In other words, you carry a pinch of unknown. The gap always helps you to retain your character and give you enough space to breathe. Keep in mind you should not “fit into any box”. A gap in understanding makes you more respectful to others. They always move with caution like a person dealing with fire.
2. Money Yes and also No
You need money But you should plan to live your life according to your earnings. Earning more money will not make you rich or bring happiness. Hence you compare your present earning with others who have the same income and are living a contented life. Suppose your earning just matches a man who is in a security job then you should bring down your life to his level and if your earning is so high, then match your living to that level of such a person’s lifestyle. Once you match your level of income with your living, then there will be no trouble because you are never over-lived or under-lived. All kinds of problems have a relatedness to our living versus our income. If you are able to adjust your life to your earning, you can always say bold ‘No’ to excess money!
3. You are your family
There is no great in doing…. a great service to your company and to society, when you fail to take care of your family. Your family is just a reflection of you. If you blame your spouse then you are the one who made them behave like that. If children are not disciplined you are the root cause for their behaviour. You must have high ambition and high earning but it should also include your family in the process. If you are dedicated to your family, you are blessed to them and that’s enough to influence them to reflect you..
4. A Secret Savings..
Open an account to keep money for you and you alone should know. Do not use it unless you come to the last stage of life. why? The world watches us and we aren’t aware of getting watched. Your friends and colleagues know how much you earn and you cannot escape when they come for help. Hence, you should transfer a very small portion of your expenses into savings. The savings account should not have any evidence and you alone should know till death.
It helps you in two ways, One, if the world tries to punish or revenge you by making you a poor man. You can still come back as a phoenix bird and prove to the world you cannot be destroyed or Suppose, if there is no such challenge, then let your children use their talent and your blessing to reach the treasure after your death.
5. You will not be spared
A mafia watches your entire behaviour. Society is least bothered when you are poor but as soon you start earning they walk in with a lot of taxes. The more you spend the more you breed them. They are interested in your present style of living hence do not show off your income to others and invite trouble. Earn and live a contented life to avoid the trouble of the mafia. These watchers called ‘Eyes” invisibly watching and exploiting us. hence live a subtle life. An advice, the world will kill the good people and as well the bad people. The world killed the good idol ‘Gandhi’ and also the bad ‘Hitler’.
6. Withdraw yourself
Okay it’s always thrilling to trend in social networks but it invites trouble because everyone wants to be in the limelight. Avoid over exhibiting yourself for recognition. Live as if you’re unnoticed and live a disciplined life like Office-home-friends-in house gathering-once a travel-once a restaurant. If you do, then you know the meaning of life.
If the above look like a hypocrite.
Yes! Sometimes….
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